I get a lot of questions doing invitations; wording, titles, addressing, themes, etc. To be honest I'm more of a free spirit when it comes to weddings. I think you should invite people how you want to. Show your style! I think it brings meaning to the ceremony and welcomes your guests. But with that said, it's still a ceremony with honor and all your guests don't think the same way you do so it's good to know some of the wedding rules. Start with what's "right" and then make it your own. Here's the tip for today. Hopefully it will come in handy for my clients and those DIY brides out there.
The return address should be printed on the back flap of the envelope and will be the address of the host of the event. If the hosts are the bride and groom typically the bride's names stands alone but I've seen many of my clients add the groom's name so as not to leave them out. Names are not commonly used at all with a formal return address and you can always go that way if you are unsure of what names you'd like. You must realize that some people who do not attend may send a gift to this address so make sure that's okay when you pick which one you will use. The rsvp card is most easily matched but can be different if necessary for the guest count.
I like to add a picture that ties the address into the invite or at least matches the font and colors. It really makes a finished and professional look. So even if you don't buy your invites work with your desktop printer and learn how to print the back flap of your envelopes - buy a lot of extras! I print just about everything now-a-days because I hate my handwriting. If you do have good handwriting however match the color or the theme anyway you can.
PRINTING TIP: Most desktop printers have defining choices before you print. I have a Canon - they make great printers by the way. If there is an option to tell your printer it's printing an envelope find it and choose it. With this indication your printer knows the paper will be bumpy and it won't leave extra marks all over it!









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